Philip Dooley
Elizabeth Boyes
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the dress code, and what shoes should I wear?
We want you to look and feel great, but please keep comfort and the venue in mind! The reception involves walking across lawns, and we are hosting a Cèilidh in the evening. We highly recommend bringing flat, grass-friendly shoes so you can easily join in the dancing.
Where should I park? Can I leave my car overnight?
Parking is available in the field accessed through the lower gate on Gracious Street. You are more than welcome to drive and leave your car in the field overnight, provided it is collected by 12:00 PM (noon) on Sunday.
Below is a map showing the lower gate on Gracious Street:
To get there from the High Street, take the first left before the school down the hill and follow the bend to the left at the bottom.
How do I book a taxi at the end of the night?
The music ends and the bar closes at 11:00 PM, and all guests must depart the site by then. Taxis in the Selborne area are famously difficult to book on the night, so please pre-book your ride in advance for 10:45 PM. We highly recommend using Alton 8's taxis.
Are you having a traditional gift registry?
Your presence on our special day is the only gift we need! If you would like to contribute, we aren’t doing a traditional registry with physical items. Instead, we’ve set up a fee-free digital collection pot for our upcoming honeymoon to Japan! You can easily chip in by visiting our Honeymoon Fund.
How do I get from the ceremony to the reception?
It’s just a short walk! Following the 2:00 PM confetti toss at St. Mary's Church, you will walk down the road to Gilbert White's House stable yard. You'll pass the on-site cafe, head through the member gate on the right, and walk across the lawn straight to the marquee. We will have groomsmen and signage along the path to ensure nobody gets lost.
What time should I arrive?
If you are driving and parking in the field, please aim to arrive at the car park by 1:00 PM. The ceremony at St. Mary's Church will begin promptly at 1:30 PM.
Will there be food available for different dietary requirements?
Yes! Our menu includes specific options for vegetarian (V), vegan (Ve), and gluten-free (GF) diets.
- Canapés: During the garden party, our selection will feature vegan options (Vegetable Spring Rolls and Mini Vegetable Samosas), a vegetarian option (Parmesan Scone with Sun Blushed Tomato Cream Cheese), and a gluten-free option (Garlic Tiger Prawn and Chorizo Skewer).
- Main Meal (5:00 PM): We are serving a relaxed carvery. Alongside the slow-roasted pulled pork, there will be a vegan BBQ pulled jackfruit alternative. Gluten-free baps will also be available upon request.
- Sides: Traditional coleslaw, seasonal green salad, and Mediterranean pasta salad will be served with the main meal.
Wedding Day Timeline
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Please park in the field accessed through the lower gate on Gracious Street:
To get there from the High Street, take the first left before the school down the hill and follow the bend to the left at the bottom. -
Join us as we say our 'I dos' in the heart of Selborne village. -
Following the service, we’ll gather outside the church doors for the confetti toss before heading over to the venue. -
After the ceremony, you will walk down the road to Gilbert White's House stable yard, walk past the on-site cafe, through the member gate on the right, and across the lawn straight to the marquee. Groomsmen and signage will be set up to help guide everyone along the path so no one gets lost.
All will await the arrival of the couple for a photoin the meadows at Gilbert White's. -
Drinks, live music, and lawn games will be waiting for you! We will finish up a few more photos and join you shortly to get the celebrations started. -
We’ll begin to make our way into the historic Hampshire Barn for dinner. -
A relaxed Hog Roast served in the barn, followed by toasts and the cutting of the cake. -
As we clear the tables to make room for the dance floor, please head to the bar or enjoy the sunset in the meadow. Any remaining table wine will be moved to the side station for you to finish at your leisure! -
Time to dust off those dancing shoes! Our Cèilidh band will lead us through the steps—all skill levels (and grass-friendly footwear) are encouraged. -
The music ends and the bar closes. Please ensure your taxis are pre-booked for 10:45 PM as we must depart the site by 11:00 PM.
Contribute to Our Honeymoon Fund
The greatest gift we could ask for is your presence as we celebrate our marriage with all of our favorite people. However, if you would like to mark the occasion with a gift, a contribution towards our dream honeymoon would mean the world to us.
Our first grand adventure as newlyweds will take us on an unforgettable journey across Asia! We’ll begin by flying into the vibrant heart of Hong Kong before traveling to Osaka. From there, we'll catch the bullet train to explore the beautiful, historic streets of Kyoto. We plan to truly unwind and soak in the magic of our honeymoon with a tranquil spa retreat in Hakone, complete with breathtaking views of Mount Fuji, before wrapping up our trip under the dazzling lights of Tokyo.
Every contribution will help turn these dream experiences into lifelong memories as we start our next chapter together.
Ceremony
- Saturday August 22nd 2026
- 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM
- St. Mary's Church
Selborne Road
Selborne
GU34 3JQ
Reception
- Saturday August 22nd 2026
- 3:00 PM - 11:00 PM
- Gilbert White's
House & Gardens
